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We change lives for the better

Everyone wants to make their life happy,rich, interesting. But can not always determine where to start and how certain changes to come to the desired result. However, not all as complicated as it seems at first glance. Concentrate your efforts in the right direction you will be following:

1. Start out with the right people.

These are the people with whom you are interested, who loveand appreciates you. They are the ones who inspire you to achieve your goals, energizes and supports. They perceive you not only for who you are now, and are confident that you will become exactly who you want to be, regardless of any whatever the conditions.

2. Begin to appreciate what you already have.

The problem with many of us is that weWe think it will be more happy, when you reach a certain level. Higher prestige. Levels that have already reached the people around us: your boss in a separate room, your friend a friend who owns a mansion on the beach, etc. Unfortunately, we can not achieve the desired at one point. And when still achieve the goal, then there is a new level to which you want to reach. As a result, you are in a hurry all my life and try to get to the next level. There is no time to stop and think about what you've achieved that already have. So do not forget to stop at least for a moment and realize, appreciate what you already have at the moment.

3. Begin to notice the pleasant and the good in the most insignificant events of your life.

Instead of always waiting for deedslarge and significant events, such as weddings, birth of a child, winning the lottery or income from promotions, and live the future, begin to find happiness in the things that happen to you every day. It is invisible to us things - a cup of coffee in the morning, which wakes up the energy and activity of the day. It is an unusual taste and smell of homemade food that you feel, coming home from work. It is a pleasure to share with someone you know that is especially dear and pleasing to you. This warm touch of a human hand loves you to your hand. Daily noticing such a small pleasure, you will feel much happier and more beautiful it becomes your everyday life.

4. Do at least one small step to his big goal every day!

Remember that the journey of a thousand kilometersIt begins with one small step. About whatever you wanted, begin to take small steps are important every day to your wish has come true. While many of us have already decided what they want to achieve, only a few actually do something every day to come to the desired.

5. Start to take full responsibility for their own lives.

Realize that all your mistakes and actions -Only the result of your own choice. Be ready to take the necessary steps to improve the situation. Remember, either you yourself take responsibility for their lives, or it will make someone else. And if that happens, then you will become a slave to their ideas and plans, instead of going to his own dream. You're the only one who can directly control the outcome of your life. It will not always be easy. Everyone faces obstacles. But you have to take responsibility for any situation and overcome these obstacles. The choice is not easy, but it is always for you.

6. Start to help those who are close to you.

Take care of the people. Guide them, if you know the way better and safer for them. The more you help others, the more they will want to help you, too. Love and kindness are also engenders love and kindness. Remember this.

7. Start listening to your inner voice and trust intuition.

If it is important to discuss your ideas with youclose friends, but do not neglect your intuition and follow it. Be honest with yourself. Say what you want to say. Do what your heart says.

8. Start to forgive yourself and others.

We all experience the pain of our ownwrong decisions, or offended by the actions of others. Although such painful experiences are natural, they sometimes drag on for a long time. Again and again we are experiencing the pain and had difficulty letting go of her. Forgiveness - this medicine. This does not mean that it is necessary to erase the past and forget about what happened. This means that you just have to let go of resentment and pain. Learn a lesson from what has happened, perceived as the experience and move on. live brightly
oh life without resentment.

9. Give your dreams a chance or an idea come true!

You will never be 100% sure that yourthe idea would work. But you sure can you be 100% sure that this does not work, if we do nothing, and just dream. Most of the time you just have to do something on the way to a dream. And no matter what happens. All will end exactly as it should be. In any case, if we act consistently, you either reach the success, or will gain a new experience, you learn something new. The strategy of «win-win» - no losers!

10. Be sure that you're always ready for the next step in their lives.

Are you ready! Remember this. You've got everything you need now to make another small, but a real step forward. So use all the features on your path of life and accept the problems and difficulties as gifts of fate that will help you rise above itself.

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